Lets be H-A-P-P-Y together

I realized I haven't been posting as much as I told myself I was to relieve stressors. I need to stay on top of it and express myself since it feels like I can't talk to any friends about it for the simple thought I don't like people to know what's going on in my marriage for the simple fact that they try to come into it and ruin it. What the hell is wrong with people now a days? Have they forgotten what respect is? I refuse to respect someone who doesn't respect me ba ck but even if I hated someone I will never do something so low like that. That is not me, that is not what God chose me to be.
First off, I don't get how people would want to do this to me. To try and tell me my husband is abusive towards me... Say WHAT?! Is just a rumor waiting to get started! Not to mention my husband doesn't deserve me because I am too much of a great person to be with him because of his flaws. See here's the thing. Everyone has flaws. I am not a great person.. I'm just a good person trying to make the best out of my life possible. My husband is a good person in his own way too. I'm proud of what he does, he's a US ARMY soldier, that should tell you enough to know he has a spot waiting for him in heaven when the time comes because he chose to love and protect his country. Right?
So I get to thinking.. These people are trying to make us argue and arguments can lead to much more when they can't be fixed.
So you think back... What is it that we have that these people don't have? I know! We have a great marriage, we can talk to each other and work things out we consult with each other first before we make any decisions. Last but not least, WE LOVE EACH OTHER. We always will. We knew we wanted to be together forever.
Just because these people's marriage failed, it doesn't give them a RIGHT to judge and manipulate someone else's marriage. If they were truly my friend, they wouldn't have dared to do such a thing.why would they hurt their friend? Jealousy? Envy? You should never be jealous of a friend.. That's no friend at all.
I'm also at fault but I'm only human... My mind got manipulated and its affecting my marriage as we speak. I just want to be happy... with my husband. Is that too much to ask? It just tells me one thing. I cannot hang out with these people anymore.